Does a girl always have to be in love? to have sex.
ha
someone said this to me recently..i mean said "i really dont like him much but god i could do this for a long time"
good for you.
and then..then, this another disturbing conversation happened with another friend
she is i guess 26ish?
she is from my delhi days and am pretty fond of her.. no pretenses.very in your face and very very wry humour.i like!
so she is with me here in my city when she calls me the other day
me: hey this has been long..where you been
Es: getting laid
me: ah good to hear someone is..should i ask who when how etc considering there was noone till the last time we spoke
Es: yeah..dont judge me..he is just 21 or so.
me: ermm
Es: well judged i see. lets make it up,to you.. he is from your part of the world
me: oh well then its ok..my part of the world men get laid very less i hear unless they get outa that place
Es: yeah am just helping that cause
me: haha right..so..? and?how is he
Es: yes straight to the point arent we? he is absolutely stunning
me: looking?
Es: no in action
me: hm nice must be d 21 ..they are real high on hormones i think
Es: and moves
me: hmm
nothing disturbing so far and then she had to kill it for me
Es: i have met somone else though..so i guess this is over..hey you want to meet him? he writes poems u know..sad ones..stil
me: ugh..i am almost engaged woman
Es: what!!
etc etc..over to my life..
but see the point is women are on this whole roll thing i see. its almost scary! they are willing to share for christ sake.or well dump and give you the keys rather!
i have no issues with pre marital sex. just like how i respect your decision to keep it "safe"
but what i hate is people who claim to not understand women having just vague undefined lets call them relationships.
so?
when am happy and ready il settle
till then i should wait in isolation?
pah
anyway
what is also funny is the whole twist in things..
i have male friends who are doing the worrying now..remember that once familiar "what if he doesnt call?"
"why hasnt he called?"
changed to " hey you think she likes me..she intro me to her friend..you know.."
one side of me is very glad..
the other..well..i still like chivalry.:)
and ps: most importantly none of this applies to me anymore. what could be a better point than that.
2 comments:
heh...passing us on? We men feel so used. It's nice.
I think boys always worried about the "does she like me"...just that younger, they never told their female friends. After college or what have you they do. Which is why you're hearing about it.
@ CD: well all good and d world is a safe place as long as some party is doing some worrying!
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